trust

I know its been awhile, but here I am, back at it with my latest pondering.  Trust is what everyone wishes to obtain from another person, but when you trust and are betrayed once, how can you move on and trust another?  For some people may be more forgiving and forgetting than I, but shaking the feeling of betrayal is a much harder feat to accomplish, than to just say one will.  Placing little faith in words, and weighting action is a paradox in itself, for one will always act in their own benefit, so even if their actions are just, they may be just self satisfying.  I wish I could just reach a catharsis and clear my mind, but for now, I will remain uncertain.